ĆERKA JOJ JE PRED SVIMA REKLA DA JE DEBELA MAMA: Usledila je lekcija života! Ovo ćete i vi dobro zapamtiti!

Žena - 11.07.2017. 17:43h

Alison Kimi je sa decom bila na plaži. Pošto je bilo vreme da idu kući, pozvala je ćerku i sina da izađu iz vode, ali je ljutita devojčica mami odbrusila: "Neću, debela". Ljudi sa obale okrenuli su se ka njima.

Usledio je razgovor između majke i ćerke.

"Šta si to rekla o meni?", pitala je mama.

"Rekla sam da si debela mama. Izvini", rekla je devojčica.

This is how we rollllll.... Family outdoor exercise for the win. Passing down positive habits in the best way I know how- getting them involved in my favorite activity. Being a "good example" doesn't have to have a size, it just has to have heart and intentions to share what lights you up in hopes that it could spark something positive in them. JDY Xoxo Allie

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"Hajde da malo popričamo o tome. Ja nisam debela. NIKO nije debeo. To nije nešto što možeš da budeš kao osoba. Ali imam višak kilograma. Svi imamo manje ili više viška koji nam štiti kosti i mišiće i daju nam energiju. Da li i ti imaš malo masti?", pitala je majka.

"Da, imam malo na stomaku", rekla je.

"To imam i ja, a ima i tvoj brat", rekla mama.

"Nemam ja salo, ja sam najmršaviji, imam samo mišiće", uključio se i dečak.

Like mother, like son. And I'm so okay with that, too. ______________ The way I look doesn't change the way I parent and the values I instill in my children, and it never will because: Kindness has no size. Intelligence has no size. Compassion has no size. Empathy has no size. Passion has no size. Respect has no size. Resiliency has no size. Honesty has no size. Curiosity has no size. Love has no size. ❣️Life skills don't have a weight limit.❣️ So let's shift the focus from only the physical and what we can SEE, and begin raising children that don't measure someone's worth (including their own) by the way they look in order to raise a generation of confident, body positive and compassionate children. ????????????????Can I get an amen?! ???????????????? Just do you babes! Xoxo Allie _________ Bikini by @cocoreefswim Baggies by @hurley _________ #bopo #bopoparenting #bopoforkids #bopowarrior #bodypos #bodylove #bodyimage #positiveparenting #effyourbeautystandards #nowrongway #nothighgap #glitterstripes #selflove #bodypositive

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"Zapravo, svaki čovek ima salo, ali u različitim količinama", objasnila je.

"Da, imam i ja malo da mi štiti mišiće, ali ti imaš mnogo više od mene", nastavio je dečak.

"Da, tačno. Neki imaju mnogo, neki malo. Ali to ne znači da je zbog toga neko bolji a neko lošiji. Razumete?", pitala je decu.

Rekli su da razumeju.

"Ne treba da nazivamo druge debelima, jer svi imaju sala i u redu je biti debeo", rekli su i pitali da opet idu u vodu.

Hey mama ???????? In case you need a little reminding: You are your child's greatest mentor. Period. End of discussion. Being a thinner mom doesn't make you a better fit for parenting. Being a bigger mom doesn't make you a bad influence. No matter your size or circumstance, the greatest gift you can give them is unconditional love and unapologetic joy. Double tap if you needed this reminder today ❤️???????? Just do you babes, so our children can too! Xoxo Allie _______ #momlife #bopo #parenting #bopowarrior #effyourbeautystandards #plussize #allbodiesaregoodbodies #teachthemyoung

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Majka ih je odbila.

"Ne dozvoljavam da u mojoj kući ikog vređamo tako što navodimo da je debeo, zato znam da je moja ćerka to kao uvredu čula negde. Hranimo decu idejama na svakom ćošku, i svuda mogu da čuju neku novu uvredu za koju nisu ni znali . Naš posao je da naučimo decu da se izdignu iznad uvreda i da uvek u glavi imaju naše vaspitanje koje im govori da budu pozitivni i da prihvataju sve onakve kakvi jesu", zaključila je ova hrabra mama.

My daughter called me fat today. She was upset I made them get out of the pool and she told her brother that mama is fat. I told her to meet me upstairs so we could chat. Me: "what did you say about me?" Her: "I said you were fat, mama, im sorry" Me: "let's talk about it. The truth is, I am not fat. No one IS fat. It's not something you can BE. But I do HAVE fat. We ALL have fat. It protects our muscles and our bones and keeps our bodies going by providing us energy. Do you have fat?" Her: "yes! I have some here on my tummy" Me: "that's right! So do I and so does your brother!" Her brother: "I don't have any fat, I'm the skinniest, I just have muscles" Me: "actually everyone, every single person in the world has fat. But each of us has different amounts." Her brother: " oh right! I have some to protect my big muscles! But you have more than me" Me: "Yes, that's true. Some people have a lot, and others don't have very much. But that doesn't mean that one person is better than the other, do you both understand? Both: "yes, mama" Me: "so can you repeat what I said" Them: "yes! I shouldn't say someone is fat because you can't be just fat, but everyone HAS fat and it's okay to have different fat" Me: "exactly right!" Them: "can we go back to the pool now?" Me: no ???????? __________________ Each moment these topics come up i have to choose how I'm going to handle them. Fat is not a bad word in our house. If I shame my children for saying it then I am proving that it is an insulting word and I continue the stigma that being fat is unworthy, gross, comical and undesirable. Since we don't call people fat as an insult in my household, I have to assume she internalized this idea from somewhere or someone else. Our children are fed ideas from every angle, you have to understand that that WILL happen: at a friends house whose parents have different values, watching a tv show or movie, overhearing someone at school- ideas about body image are already filtering through their minds. It is our job to continue to be the loudest, most accepting, positive and CONSISTENT voice they hear. So that it can rise above the rest. Give me a ???????? if this resonated w u! Just do you! Xoxo Allie

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