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OVA ŽENA JE OPSEDNUTA MENSTRUACIJOM: Jedva čeka da dobije ciklus pa da lice maže krvlju, pa fotku okači na Instagram! Evo šta je njen problem (FOTO)

Žena - 01.03.2019. 15:07h

Demetra Niks iz Kalifornije podilila je više izrazito provokativnih fotografija na Instagramu kako bi se suprotstavila svim negativnom teorijama o menstruaciji, koja se često doživljava kao prljava i tabu tema.

Demetra (26) je dobila prvu menstruaciju kad je imala 12 godina, ali tad je se stidela i mislila da je to odvratno - pa je od svih krila da ju je već dobila.

Ugradila je spiralu, ali onda usledili dugotrajni i bolni ciklusi zbog kojih nije mogla ni da ustane iz kreveta, pa je posle godinu dana odlučila da je izvadi.

Posle toga Demetra je počela da menja svoje mišljenje o menstruaciji, pa je počela da na društvenim mrežama, prvenstveno Instagramu, objavljuje fotografije menstrualne krvi i otvoreno da piše o ciklusu.

Jedna fotografija prikazuje reč 'besramna' napisano krvlju na njenoj nozi.

"Pre sam provodila svoje vreme brinući se o tome što drugi ljudi misle o meni ... A ipak, ispostavilo se da ništa od toga nije bilo potrebno. Sve što danas radim od drugih ne tražim odobravanje. Jer ono što sam na svom putu stekla je najdublja ljubav i potpuno odobravanje same sebe", piše uz fotografiju objavljenu na Instagramu.

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I used to spend my time worrying about what other people thought of me. I used to keep lists as a 12-year-old: what are all the ways in which I could be more attractive? What are all the ways in which I could make that person like me? How could I make my body more acceptable? How could I hide my blood, my skin, my wrinkles, my fat? In my twenties, the focus on my appearance shifted, but the root of where I spent my energy was the same. It was still spent on forming an image that would make other people approve of me. The one with the strongest body. The one that was peaceful and positive. The one who was a good student, the one who was a good teacher, the one who was fun and bubbly but not too loud. The one who could hold all of her emotions and was always working to get rid of her bad feelings. You have it too, don’t you? The one who is a good mom. The one who is a good daughter. The one who eats the healthiest. The one who is a good person. The one who has the most money. It was the same, though. The focus was different but it was still the same. It was still: how could I make sure the people whose opinions I cared about approved of me? And yet. It turns out none of that was ever necessary. I don’t do anything I do now for anyone’s approval. I don’t care about being seen as strong or successful or pretty or important. I also do not care if I am seen as jealous or angry or insecure or hurt or selfish or loud. Because what I have gained on this journey, finally, is the deepest love and total approval of my Self. What if you deeply, truly loved and *approved* of yourself? That is why I post my blood. It is a little to liberate other women and a lot to please my Self. I get so much pleasure from this ritual and I love feeling so free to share it and I love not caring what the reactions will be. That is how I live my whole life, now. If you want to heal in this way. If you want to learn this. SHAMELESS - my 6-week one-on-one coaching program for women is open for registration from now until November 27th. There are 3 spots available. Are you brave enough to claim yours? Message me xx

Објава коју дели Demetra Nyx (@demetra_nyx) дана 21. Нов 2018. у 9:42 PST

"Zato i objavljujem svoju krv. To je mali korak za oslobađanje žena od sopstvenih inhibicija i moje veliko zadovoljstvo", dadala je.

Već godinu dana, Demetra deli selfije u kojima joj je lice umazano krvlju. Na jednoj fotografiji objašnjava zašto je odlučila da ih obkavljuje.

"Ovo ću da radim svakog meseca, sve do trenutka dok ljudi ne prestanu da se šokiraju. Radiću to dok se devojčice budu učile da je ta normalna telesna funkcija odvratna i prljava. Radiću to dok žene ne prestanu da misle da ne mogu imati seksualni odnos za vreme menstruacije jer misle da je to odvratno", napisala je.

"Objavljivaću ovakve fotografije dok ne prestanemo da se stidimo toga da smo prokrvarile i zamazale odeću ili posteljinu. Ako učinim nešto toliko šokantno i odvratno i to javno objavim... možda će neko negde pomisliti da, ako to mogu ja, da to mogu i oni i da ciklus ne treba mrzeti. Možda pomisle da njihovo telo ipak nije tako odvratno", objasnila je svoje stavove.

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I will do this every month until people are no longer shocked by it. ? I will do it until little girls stop being taught that the natural functions of their bodies are disgusting and unclean. I will do it until women stop feeling like they can’t have sex on their period because it is gross. I will do it until we stop being embarrassed that we sometimes bleed through our clothing. Through your sheets. The idea isn’t to get everyone to put blood on their face (though - wow - does it make your skin glow!) Rather... if I do something soooo shockingly disgusting and put it out in public... maybe someone somewhere will feel like: “well, if she can do *that*, maybe I don’t have to hate my period after all. Maybe my body isn’t that gross after all.” . Also, it’s fun and I like it ??‍♀️ . #mybodymychoice #menstruation #witchesofinstagram #blood #witch #fuckyourstandards

Објава коју дели Demetra Nyx (@demetra_nyx) дана 15. Мај 2018. у 2:51 PDT